Archive for 'LIVE TO TELL'
SHADEISM
“She’s pretty for a dark-skin girl.” “Oh she thinks she’s cute because she’s light-skinned.” Does any of this sound familiar? If not, fantastic. You’ve managed to escape Shadeism; a toxic fragment of slavery and global colonialism that has [...]
CRUSH CLARITY
c’mon … he was the hottest of the New Kid. (NKOTB if you’re down!) Do you remember your first crush? The forbidden fruit you wanted but couldn’t have? He was untouchable, flawless, and so far out of [...]
ON THE AIR – RICHFIT USA
Talk radio is zeBomb! I love the spontaneity that comes from perfect strangers having a conversation. Most of all, radio forces you to TUNE IN and absorb the content of the message – gone are the [...]
LIVE THE DREAM-INTERVIEW
For 2012 the team at butilovememore.com wants to introduce you to extraordinary ladies who are doing BIG things and living the dream. I want you to meet everyday ladies to MADE it happen and know that [...]
FEEL YOUR FEELINGS
i’m fine, really. i understand. i don’t want ‘them’ to be mad at me. to be concerned with the feelings of others over your own is the mission and motto of people pleasers worldwide. what you [...]
GETTING CLOSURE
Some call it an “AH-HA Moment”. To others, it’s an epiphany, an awakening, a revelation or a realization. The intersection where hindsight meets the present and you are able to catch a ‘birds-eye-view’ of what it’s really [...]
STREET HARASSMENT
Street Harassment – a new term to describe the leering, oggling, arm grabs, pssssts, eh shawtys. The ‘c’mere guhl, turn around, and (a favorite) “why aren’t you smiling”. These are some of the random and (often) [...]
LOOKING FOR THE LIGHT
You are lost and alone. Twisted around and the throat tightening anxiety starts to sinks in. ‘I seriously have no idea where I am – nothing is familiar, no landmarks and no one can help me.’ [...]









HOW DO I SET A STANDARD?
Wow. This is the first time I have EVER answered a question on ...
NATURE SERIES
i am out in CT.believe me i know what are you saying!!! or feel about
LESSONS FROM WHITNEY
i have tears in my eyes.. this last part was beautifully written and i
HANG ON OR HANG IT UP?
There was this reggae song back when I was a teenager called Raggamuff
HE'S EMOTIONLESS & I LOVE HIM
You are in a relationship with a passive/aggressive/defensive sort of