Its February.

Red and pink hearts flood the stores.

It’s THAT time again.

My tender and tough hearted friends who loathe valentines, cinnamon heart candies and Kay Jewelers commercials, hear this; I want you to VOW TODAY that Feb 14 2012 will be a wonderful day with or without a romantic love because LOVE is all around you.

say it, “i am surrounded by love.”

i know you wanna make out and get pampered. then pamper yourSELF.

maybe this year you treat a younger or older woman to something special. a sweet card, spring tulips or an unnaturally colored cupcake from the grocery store, its the gesture she’ll remember.

yes, its a commercial holiday. no, you shouldn’t have to wait a day to show your love. yes, its nice to experience (sincere) romance. no, you aren’t a spinster if you are single.

stop being so hard on yourself.

and know this…

“You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.”